Sunday, November 16, 2008

I am about to explode...

Posted by Cecile at Sunday, November 16, 2008
Have you ever live in apartment where your next door neighbors are very inconsiderate? Inconsiderate when it comes to making noises even in the middle of the night; the computer's on in a loud volume. What about bouncing back and forth on the wall anytime of the day. And oh, one more thing, how about parking the car very close to your car that when they open the door will give you car a dig and worse chipped the paint off twice in less 15 minutes. I feel like am going to explode. I knew it was going to happen, becuase I saw him last night having trouble parking his big truck, sure enough in the morning, I saw two paint chipped out of our new van, not to mention the long scratch made two weeks ago. Alright, I know living in apartment comes with a lot of inconveniences, but please if you are nice and considerate and sensitive person even living in apartment, you will try not to make many noises as possible. I always tell my son to lower his voice, do not run, jump, scream or play or bang his toys on the wall for our neighbor will hear it. It has been eight months now since our moved here in apartment; I can’t take it anymore. There were times that I would like to go there and talk to them about their noises, but my husband told me to calm down and be a Christian; what do you mean Christian? What do you think I have been doing here? I have trying to be patient with them the whole eight months. Isn't that enough? I am sorry, just need to voice out what I am feeling right now. My hubby is not home yet, got no one to talk to. Anyway, his morning when I was getting in to the van going to church, noticed the thing they did last night on the van and I was like, gosh! Please God give more patience and forgiveness in my heart so I forgive them and have peaceful feelings while at church; God did answer my prayers. I was able to forget at the whole thing and was at peace the whole time my son and I was at church. Then, just now, they have been making noises again; as expected; bad feeling came into my mind and am about to explode again. Yeah, God wants us to be nice and kind; but what I can do, am just imperfect human trying to be perfect, but with the neighbor likes these one, am not sure if I can hold this bad feeling anymore.

8 comments:

amiable amy said...

Cecile, i knew that feeling. And honestly, here the noisy are mostly the "kababayan of Magellan" sa pananalita...very noisy talaga with music...super LOUD!d naman music. Anyway, if i were you i will capture it in video (about car parking problem), but the music on their room...i don't know what to do. If I were you, after your contract, find a place and move. Some people are too arrogant to listen to your complaints. Find help from your church if they knew some place, same rate and nicer/friendly neighborhood.Iwas nalang sister.Mahirap na if explode na tayo...para tayong bulkan...Hope everything will be okay.

chubskulit said...

Awww i feel bad for you ate.. Can you talk to the land lord instead? going directly to them isn't gonna work.. Just tell the landlord that your vehicle got chipped twice now so you can't toloreate it anymore.. Hope, you can settle things out...

Cecile said...

yup, tama ka nga Amy, need to avoid na lang and control my emotions.

about the lease, we are just waiting till Jake finish his school nexy year and then move.

noise is like all night playing video games.

thanks for the advice, dear :-)

Cecile said...

thanks for the advice, Rose, I didn't think about going to the landlord; can't think clearly when am angry :-), we'll do that next time it happened again.

Dhemz said...

OMG! no way highway! kakainis kaya kung ganon...hehhe...buti nalang dati nong nakatira kami sa condo wala kaming ganyan na neighbor...pwede naman kayong mag complain sa landlord nyo te..dba may rules and regulations naman dba? good luck te..nako...huwag tatas ang blood pressure mo...hehhe...:)

Cecile said...

oo, dhemz will do that next tome, am fine now, mailabas na kasi sama ng loob hehehe

ganyan naman ako eh, pag nailabas na, parang walang nangyari :-)

did you guys really think susugurin ko kapitbahay ko?

in my dreams,talok ko na lang, pero really I felt like doing it really dahil asa sobrang inis ko

Leslie Ann said...

i feel bad for you...i once had a neighbor like that, sobra mag-ingay. tapos nagvi-videoke kahit hatinggabi na, di naman maganda boses (hehehe). worse, parang mga kabayo kung bumaba sa hagdan. even their personal arguments we could hear, kasi sigawan ng sigawan. super bait lang ng landlord namin kaya we beared staying for another month, tapos lumipat din kami. almost 5 years kami sa apartment namin na yun pero lumipat din kami para iwas na rin sa gulo. pero before we did, binungangaan ko sila, hehehe.

Cecile said...

Leslie, i wished i have courage to do that, but am scred they might do more harm to us, we better keep ourselves quiet and move after our lease is over.

 

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